Prostate Orgasm Guide: How to Achieve It Successfully (Tested & Proven)
About three years ago, I was browsing the web as usual, searching for information. Call it coincidence or fate—when I clicked the pop-up in the bottom corner, I missed the close button and was redirected. Normally, I’d exit such links immediately, but the first line I saw read, “A gland unique to men.” That piqued my curiosity, so I kept reading. Little did I know, that one glance would lead me down a three-year rabbit hole.
Though I’ve since read countless articles and browsed product listings on sites like Taobao, I’ve always been cautious. Until I fully understand something, I won’t take unnecessary risks—especially when it comes to my body
I’ll start by examining this medically, since clinical evidence lends medicine greater credibility. Now, let’s begin.
The prostate is an organ unique to males, shaped like a chestnut (a description that seems to appear in every introductory article) and located below the bladder neck, encircling the junction where the bladder outlet meets the urethra. Its broad upper end, called the prostatic base, adjoins the bladder neck, while its tapered lower end, termed the prostatic apex, sits on the urogenital diaphragm. The prostatic body lies between the base and apex.
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I've learned that there is a longitudinal shallow groove along the midline of the prostate called the prostatic sulcus. When doctors perform prostate massage to obtain prostatic fluid, their gloved index finger ultimately slides down along this groove, squeezing out the prostatic fluid - which explains why those who have experienced Prostate Stimulation may not always have visible fluid discharge. The prostate is located within the pelvic cavity and cannot be palpated through the body surface. It sits between the pubic symphysis anteriorly and the rectal ampulla posteriorly. The pubic symphysis needs no elaboration - it's that hard bone we can feel above our genitals when touching externally. This anatomical arrangement is precisely why rectal access through the anus becomes the only feasible approach.
However, many people find that simply entering through the back door doesn't reliably lead to Prostate Orgasm (P-spot orgasm), or it's difficult to achieve at all. Occasionally, some may succeed but can't pinpoint exactly what worked or distinguish effective techniques from futile efforts. Additionally, direct penetration requires considerable tolerance - especially for beginners. Through extensive personal experimentation, I've identified several common issues or misconceptions.
First, a digital prostate exam is purely for health screening purposes. Though the doctor's clinically precise manipulation involves contact—and as mentioned earlier, may include prostate massage for fluid extraction—it doesn't produce intense pleasure or that profound internal sensation of fullness. This leads me to hypothesize: achieving prostate orgasm isn't merely about stimulating the prostate itself. Rather, it's likely a layered pleasure experience involving multiple erogenous zones working in synergy.
Second, is vibration absolutely necessary for prostate stimulation? Our gay friends might be the first to disagree—after all, no mechanical stimulation can compare to the sheer intensity of pleasure from real, intimate human connection.
Third, "Can the front penis not be touched?" This might seem like a ridiculous question that would draw skepticism—or even bafflement—from many. After all, attention has always been focused on the front, much like how human reproduction inevitably revolves around it. As a result, people’s understanding and exploration of the front far surpass that of the rear. But when some began exploring the back and discovered that prostate orgasms ("front-height") could surpass the pleasure of ejaculation, it gradually opened others’ eyes: There’s more to Male Pleasure than just penile climax. The male body holds many other erogenous zones waiting to be awakened.
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So, I experimented with using the front to build arousal—since stimulating the front is far simpler and quicker for a 'cold start' compared to the back. It’s like a car: slamming the accelerator from a dead stop without letting the engine warm up or the coolant reach temperature is the fastest way to wreck it.
Yet, I faced a major hurdle: coordination. Focusing on the front meant neglecting the back, and vice versa. I assumed that once the front was fully engorged and throbbing, the rear would be ready—but no. The moment I shifted attention backward, the arousal level dropped drastically. Synchronization was key: simultaneous stimulation of both primary zones. During this process, I also deliberately targeted secondary areas like the perineum and anal rim (which inevitably gets stimulated during penetration) to test my theory that prostate orgasms involve more than just the prostate. But first, I had to solve the synchronization problem—the critical bridge between cold start and full arousal. If this failed, nothing else mattered. Thus began my quest for tools that could deliver dual stimulation. From front cups paired with rear shafts to premium sleeves combined with U-shaped massagers, I tried everything. Yet whether crouching, half-squatting, or seated, achieving true synchronization remained elusive—often feeling downright awkward."
During that period, I found myself feeling lost and anxious, even to the point of losing my sense of self. My mind was completely consumed by the pursuit of prostate orgasms—frustrated by my lack of progress but unsure how to improve. Eventually, I decided to just let go and stop obsessing over it. I deleted all the related apps and left the online groups I frequented, cutting myself off from that mental space entirely. For nearly two months, I stayed out of that "emotional zone." But then, by pure chance, something changed. Maybe it was the algorithms picking up on my past searches for terms like prostate massage or prostatic orgasm—because when I opened Taobao to shop, there it was in my recommendations: Comfly, a product I’d never seen before. Curiosity got the better of me, and I clicked in to check it out. It’s funny how life works. Like when you’ve spent years in a certain job—even after quitting, the experience stays with you. You might leave the industry, but when you stumble across something related, you can’t help but take a look.
I clicked in and skimmed through the product description - honestly, I just wanted to see how this thing worked. But to my astonishment, it turned out to be exactly the coordinated stimulation method I'd been struggling to figure out! The coincidence was unbelievable. At that moment, I felt both thrilled and shocked - everything came rushing back. I even forgot about the original item I intended to purchase, spending at least half an hour poring over the product page back and forth. After consulting customer service and watching their demonstration videos, I gained a basic understanding. The most fascinating part? Comfly isn't just about coordinated stimulation - it targets multiple pleasure zones. They share the same philosophy that prostate orgasm isn't achieved through single-point prostate stimulation alone. What's more impressive - their team has actually reached prostate orgasm through this exact method of multi-zone pleasure stacking! From our conversation, I could clearly tell they spoke from hands-on experience - their expertise was evident in how they addressed details and provided thoughtful feedback. The discussion was incredibly pleasant and genuinely enlightening. It's rare to encounter such knowledgeable and inspiring communicators in this field.
To be honest, what surprised me at the time wasn’t that it aligned with my ideas, but that someone dared to put those ideas into practice and actually make them a reality. This goes beyond just solving a pain point for others—it’s about creating a new demand and then fulfilling it. Meanwhile, I was just wallowing in frustration and gave up halfway.
I’ll definitely order this product without a second thought, for a simple reason: even though the customer service claims it achieves blended pleasure through synergistic stimulation and multi-zone sensation stacking, I want to verify it myself. After all, I did arrive at the same theory independently before even knowing this product existed.
In the end, I chose the electric insertable version for two reasons. First, I’ve already trained my rear entrance—larger toys have stretched me out, reducing anal sensitivity, so the beginner version no longer suits me. Second, I want to compare the vibrating and non-vibrating modes to test my initial skepticism: is the electric function really necessary?
With a mix of anticipation and lingering doubts, I finally had the chance to put it to the test. My first hands-on experience began—the device is wearable, which indeed makes synergistic stimulation easier to achieve, as I’d previously mentioned how awkward and uncoordinated other positions could be. By the way, the instructions provided by the brand are incredibly detailed and practical, even specifying approximate stimulation ratios for front and back play. This went beyond my initial idea of just using front stimulation to drive arousal!
For my first attempt, I started by familiarizing myself with the device and adjusting it to my body based on the tutorial video. Since it’s wearable, getting the right fit is crucial—like buying pants, the sizing has to be just right. After some fine-tuning, I followed the steps (which I’ll detail below). But first, the results: by the second try, I hit a full-body dry orgasm—waves of pleasure radiating down to my knees and up to my chest, intense and all-consuming. It was like riding the edge of climax over and over, effortlessly controllable, with no ejaculation but pure, sustained ecstasy.
Here's a breakdown of my step-by-step experience and key takeaways while using this product:
Key Principle: It must be simultaneous, synergistic stimulation—front and back together, not just alternating, but truly synchronized.
Step 1: Initial Stimulation Setup
After securing the device, begin with front-dominant stimulation while maintaining baseline rear activation.
Objective: Since the front is more sensitive to initial stimulation, we use it to build arousal and activate the pleasure pathways first. Without proper arousal, climax is impossible—no one can reach orgasm immediately. Going straight for aggressive rear stimulation only leads to discomfort or even painful endurance.
Step 2: When you feel a slight sensation of ejaculation in your body, it indicates that your body has become aroused. Start to focus mainly on the stimulation at the back.
Note: Focusing mainly on the back here doesn't mean completely ignoring the front. Instead, you should provide weak stimulation to the front. Comfly mentioned that the approximate ratio of stimulation is two parts for the front and eight parts for the back.
Step 3: Concentrate your mind. Provide mainly back stimulation for about 10 - 15 minutes. You will reach a state that is more than just arousal, but a deeper level of prostate pleasure. The accumulation of pleasure during this period is essential. This product, which uses simultaneous stimulation of multiple areas such as the prostate, perineum, anus, and scrotum, can help you reach the front orgasm more quickly.
Step 4: Use the wearable device to control and adjust to increase the frictional stimulation of the back anal area (thrusting is a form of friction. A man's pleasure comes from the friction at the two openings, front and back). When you feel a bit lightheaded or your body starts to uncontrollably desire more stimulation, it is a sign that you are entering the realm of the front orgasm.
Step 5: On the basis of step 4, enjoy yourself wholeheartedly. Within five minutes, you will enter the full front orgasm time. Enjoy it to the fullest!
Note: After repeated use, electric vibration will provide more intense stimulation and shorten the time for accumulating pleasure through multi-area stimulation. However, due to the strong stimulation, it requires users to have a better understanding of their own tolerance and be able to adjust and control it. Non-electric devices are more natural and easier to control, but they take longer to accumulate pleasure compared to electric ones.
Summary: The basis of the front orgasm is sexual arousal. It is a process from sexual arousal to prostate pleasure and then to the front orgasm, which is like a cold start of the body followed by the accumulation, explosion, and release of pleasure.
Verification 1: The front orgasm is a simultaneous and synchronized stimulation of multiple pleasure zones, including the prostate.
Verification 2: The front orgasm doesn’t mean avoiding stimulation of the front area entirely. Sometimes, "breaking through" with skillful front stimulation significantly increases the chances of achieving a front orgasm.
Verification 3: Coordinated stimulation of multiple pleasure zones makes it easier to reach the front orgasm.
Additional Notes:
If your body has low tolerance and is highly sensitive, consider using a delay spray or other desensitizing products during the pleasure accumulation phase to avoid premature ejaculation. Throughout the process, stay relaxed yet focused. Do not expect instant results or fantasize excessively right from the start, as this can backfire, distract you, and reduce effectiveness. While the steps above may seem simple, the key lies in understanding your own body and adjusting based on your current state during practice. The optimal experience comes from the perfect combination of device, technique, and user control—with the user being the most critical factor. Without patience and expecting instant results from a device alone, the door to the front orgasm will likely remain closed for you. Even if a "pie falls from the sky," you’d still need to bend down to pick it up. If you’re unwilling to make that effort, there’s no point spending time pursuing it.
This is just the experience of someone who’s been through frustration and experimentation—but it’s backed by repeated real-world testing. I hope it helps those who feel stuck in their pursuit of the front orgasm!